06 Jun Othering
Three weeks ago, Vu Le (formerly Non-Profit with Balls, and now Non-Profit AF) wrote a critique of donor-centric fundraising. In his post, he complained about the whole idea that donors should be in the center of what non-profits do, “I just don’t believe that donors should be in the center of non-profit work, or even in the center of fundraising work.”
I’ve spent the past two weeks analyzing his post and making the case that the center is where everyone else is and that donors should be at the center also. (See What is a Donor? And What is “Donor-Centric”? and More Counterpoint on Donor-Centrism.)
This week I want to address another topic Le mentions in his original post. Rather than paraphrase it, here is a paragraph from his post:
[Donor centrism] perpetuates the othering of the people we serve: An insidious effect of the Savior complex is that people see other people as “others.” “Others” exist in our minds in a binary state, either as enemies, or as those to be helped, never our equals. With this current political climate, we’ve been seeing a lot of people perceiving and treating fellow human beings as “others/enemies.” But the “Others/People-to-be-helped” mindset is also destructive……We cannot build a strong and just society if we reinforce in donors the unconscious perception of the people we help as merely objects of pity and charity to be saved.
You might react, as I did on first reading, that this doesn’t really apply in the conservation community.
But we’d both be wrong.
In the spirit of “language matters,” let’s look at two words that we use very commonly and that betray our “othering” tendencies. The two words are “educate” and “protect.”
In nearly every strategic planning exercise with which I have been involved over the past 20 years, someone has added a strategy or a goal that has something to do with “educating the public.” The underlying frame of reference is that the public doesn’t know what’s good for them or what solutions might be out there for their particular issues and problems. We do! We have science and technology and GIS, and together with two scoops of hubris, we’re well positioned to show them exactly what to do in their own best interest. We just need to educate them. They just need to be educated.
We barely get away with this in a culture that is predominantly white (not to mention the current political climate trending to anti-science). Many of us have come to understand that we don’t have a chance in Native American communities, but we still believe that African American and Latino cultures are disinterested, apathetic, ignorant, or some combination of all three. Collectively, they (including the ignorant whites) are all “others” needing to be educated.
One of the strategies I hear most often about reaching out to non-white communities is that we must learn to listen first. Not that it’s bad advice necessarily, but the underlying – “othering” – assumption is that if we listen hard enough, we will find places where our solutions will fit their problems. They just need to be educated.
(Full disclosure: I am white, male, privileged, reasonably well-educated, and affluent by almost any world economic standard. And I consider myself a teacher. And I don’t listen first as well as I should. So, I am fully aware that I am writing about myself here.)
What about the possibility that they might offer a solution to something we’re working on? Are we willing to listen that hard? To approach them as equals?
How do we learn to listen for wisdom we can apply for ourselves instead of just ideas that connect to our solutions for them?
Le calls this kind of othering an “insidious effect of the Savior complex,” and he’s right.
The word “protect,” of course is embedded in everything we do. If land is colored green (or sometimes brown) on a map, we interpret that to mean it is protected. If land is white or some other color, it is referred to as a “gap” between protected areas – ie. “unprotected.” In fact, both ideas depend on some amazing assumptions – that land in public or non-profit ownership is protected and that land in private ownership is not.
It turns out to be pretty easy to disprove both. Strip mining, clear-cutting, lethal predator removal, controlled development, and even outright sale of protected properties aren’t unheard of on land owned by federal and state agencies. And the strength of land trust conservation easements is certain to be increasingly tested over time.
On the other hand, the Menominee Forest has been sustainably harvested for several hundreds of years by the Native Americans in central Wisconsin. The land is so starkly different from land around it that you can pick out the forest from satellite photographs. And talk to western and southwestern ranchers about whether the land that has been in their family’s continuous ownership since the civil war is protected or not.
To be sure, there are “levels of protection,” but as a conservation culture we use the word far too freely and cavalierly. After all the landowners are just Others/People-to-be-Helped, right? We can educate them first and then help them protect their land.
So, here’s the place this comes back to donors. We need to be careful not to practice “othering” on donors, too.
I wrote two weeks ago that the “Center” of the organization is where the action is.
The mission is at the center. Science is at the center. The staff and Board are at the center. The volunteers are at the center. And for land conservation, the land and water and all the critters they support (including humans) are at the center. The problem with much of our donor communication (letters, newsletters, website material, even Facebook and other social media) is that it is written as if the reader/donor is NOT part of the center.
In other words, that donors are “others” too.
They just need to be educated.
Photo by Benjamin Davies courtesy of Stocksnap.io.
Menominee Photo from the American Forests Magazine, 2012,