The Case for Handwriting

The Case for Handwriting

 

7 April 2026

 

By David Allen, Development for Conservation

 

I’ve frequently advocated for sending letters and cards in the mail (as opposed to email) and for handwriting them when possible. So I read with some interest Elizabeth Passarella’s recent opinion piece in the New York Times’ Well section a few days ago.

In her piece, Passarella described receiving a handwritten letter from a long-time friend and feeling “giddy” when she wrote a handwritten reply.

This isn’t just her opinion. Handwriting uses multiple parts of the brain – accessing creativity and memory – in ways that typing does not. (See the relevant research here.)

The engagement takes longer, encouraging you to think more deeply about the person you are writing to. And it is received that way, too. Recipients feel seen and noticed in ways that email and even typed letters can’t replicate.

Someone took the time to write to ME.

 

Passarella offers several tips for handwriting letters (I am excerpting from her directly here because I can’t say it better myself):

Let go of your hang-ups

Don’t worry that your handwriting is bad or you lack fancy stationery, said Gina Hamadey, author of “I Want to Thank You,” a book about writing 365 thank-you notes in a year. “No one is expecting calligraphy,” she said. “It’s a treat to get something tactile, a memento.”

Link it to a routine you already have

A friend of mine keeps a stack of notecards in her minivan to write while she waits in the car pool line. She occasionally writes a letter when she sits down to eat lunch instead of scrolling her phone.

If you keep a journal, consider swapping one day to jot down thoughts to a friend. Letter writing is similarly meditative. Consider keeping a sheet of stamps and notecards in the cover of your journal or the book on your night stand.

End your letter with a question

A question opens the door for a response.

 

One more thing – perhaps more important for donor correspondence. Typed communication is rarely read linearly. Recipients read the first line, then skip to the PS Note, scanning the paragraphs in between for things that catch their eye.

Handwritten letters are read from start to finish, allowing you as the writer to lay out your message in a straightforward linear set of sentences. When messaging is complex, this can help avoid misunderstandings.

Fundraisers often unintentionally miscommunicate by writing typed letters that they construct in a linear way but are not read linearly, or even completely. The points never get across, and recipients move on without responding.

 

Handwritten letters take longer, but they are more valuable communication tools. With only so much time available, do what you can:

Consider handwriting five thank you messages each week. Use cards or even postcards that arrive colorfully in the mail. Maybe they are to donors you know. Maybe donors you want to meet. Maybe to super-volunteers. Or people who have meant something special to the organization over a long period of time.

Consider sending handwritten letters when asking $250 donors to make the leap to giving $1,000. Consider gathering volunteers or Board members together to share the activity. This lends itself to working on a long table stocked with stationary, blank cards, and fancy pens.

Consider handwriting the envelopes. Handwritten letters won’t get read if they are not opened. Handwriting the envelope increases the chances that they will.

 

Also, indicate on the outside of the envelope that it was YOU sending it. Cross out the institution’s return address and handwrite or sign your name underneath.

 

So much of successful fundraising is personal. Take a little extra time this week to make it personal.

It will be rewarding for you as well – all those extra parts of your brain getting fired up.

 

Cheers, and Have a great week.

 

-da

 

PS: Your comments on these posts are welcomed and warmly requested. If you have not posted a comment before, or if you are using a new email address, please know that there may be a delay in seeing your posted comment. That’s my SPAM defense at work. I approve all comments as soon as I am able during the day.

Photo by Tharushi Jayawardana courtesy of Pixabay

Share this!
10 Comments
  • Carolina Cooney
    Posted at 16:07h, 10 April Reply

    Do you have any particular suggestions for the length of the thank you message? And paper? A separate note from their tax receipt on a sticky? Or is a stand-alone handwritten note on stationary with a hand-addressed letter preferable?

    • David Allen
      Posted at 16:21h, 10 April Reply

      Carolina, Let the handwritten thank you note stand alone. Use stationary or a greeting card and definitely handwrite the address on the envelope. The tax receipt should go separately and immediately. Your note can follow a few days or even a few weeks later.

      Thanks for the question!

      -da

  • Claire Honsinger
    Posted at 13:39h, 09 April Reply

    Thanks David! I just did a small batch of handwritten notes to organizations I am hoping to connect with, and it realized how it slowed me down and had me really feel gratitude for the work they are doing in our community. It also showed me how out of practice I am with handwriting! I love the suggestion to keep notecards in your journal – thank you!

  • Julia Landstreet
    Posted at 13:53h, 07 April Reply

    I write a thank you note for every “significant” gift. My general threshold is $250, but I acknowledge any gift with a handwritten note I know is significant for that donor.
    The practice reminds me why I do the work I do. I appreciate that it makes me pause and think of the donor and their interest and participation in the work the land trust is doing. They have taken the time and resources to support us; it is the very least I can do to pause and reciprocate.
    It has deepened a number of relationships as they tease me about my appalling penmanship, choice of ink color, change in stationery… Best of all the practice always leaves me with a sense of gratitude and in a much better mood.

  • Sally Cross
    Posted at 09:46h, 07 April Reply

    Handwritten note as part of your thank you practice make an impact! They’re also good for board members -for the land trust board I’m, we are each assigned (or have ‘claimed’) some donors to thank. When their gift pops up on the gift report, I will send them a quick thank you. Regarding handwriting, I worked for a college president, a lefty like me, whose handwriting was even worse than mine. But donors just adoree getting a personal note from him.

  • CB
    Posted at 08:54h, 07 April Reply

    Is there a concern about people who cannot read cursive? I am a cursive writer. Having to hand print an entire letter would be torture to me.

    • David Allen
      Posted at 09:08h, 07 April Reply

      CB – I’d love to hear others respond to this question, but my answer would be NO. The value of handwriting will far outweigh the small risk that your recipient will be unable to read it.

      Thank you for your question!
      -da

      • Shane Drey
        Posted at 10:19h, 10 April Reply

        I agree that a note written in cursive will most likely be able to be read, and yes the value would outweigh the risk that they can’t read it. Brains are pretty amazing things and most people can decipher enough cursive and use the context clues to get the idea that you are grateful for their donation (plus feeling special that you took the time to write and send the note).

  • A.B.
    Posted at 07:20h, 07 April Reply

    YES! That moment of bringing to mind a real, live, generous human as I write a thank-you note or address an envelope is my favorite “goodie” in development. Big gifts are great. Meeting a match is terrific. And nothing beats an hour (or day) with colored pens reveling in the kindness that keeps our community afloat.

  • Deanna Frautschi
    Posted at 06:37h, 07 April Reply

    Handwriting a message is almost a lost art, but I agree it gets the recipient’s attention more often.

Leave a Reply to Carolina CooneyCancel reply