The Problem with Not Knowing Rich People, and What You Can Do About It

The Problem with Not Knowing Rich People, and What You Can Do About It

 

15 July 2025

 

By David Allen, Development for Conservation

 

I think we spend way too much time imagining finding “rich” people in our communities and approaching them to give. The chase becomes self-defeating. “I can’t help raise money because I don’t know any rich people.

Half the households in the U.S make $80,000 or more – rich by almost any world standard. We don’t need to be looking for rich people – they are all around us.

We should be starting in a different place. We should be looking for people who care about conservation. And especially those who already give us money.

 

To give money, someone must first have money to give – that includes most everyone we know.

Second, s/he must see the organizational mission – land conservation – as something they want to see addressed. If they don’t believe in the mission, giving money at all is not very likely.

And third, s/he must see the land trust as one of their philanthropic priorities.

This last is the only factor in which we have any control. We can’t influence how much money someone has. They have what they have. Or, more accurately, they have what they take responsibility for having – some of it is a perception thing.

And we can’t really influence whether they believe conservation is a worthy cause. We can make the case that they should believe so – clean air and clean water, and so on – but it’s almost never worth arguing about. They believe what they believe.

 

So, we shouldn’t start by looking for rich people. We should start by looking for people who believe in the mission.

 

A donor once told me that the land trust was the most important charity in the area to him, but that it wouldn’t crack the top ten back in Chicago where he lived most of the year. He was “rich” by almost any definition. He supported conservation work both there locally and back home in Chicago. But this particular land trust did not make it very far up his philanthropic priority list.

Can we change our position on donors’ priority lists? I believe they change all the time. So perhaps we can exert some influence. But only if we understand that there IS a list, and we start getting clues about what else might be on it. Donors get disillusioned all the time by this charity or that, and their priorities can change with experience, threats, and opportunities. That can work both ways, of course. But it’s certainly possible for conservation to move up.

People care more about what they do with their money than they do about what we do with it. To be successful in the long run, we need to understand more about what they want to do with their money. And then talk to them about that.

How do we understand more about what they want to do with their money? By taking advantage of opportunities, and creating others, to get to know them. Inviting them to open houses (open preserves?), or coffees, or hikes. By greeting them at annual meetings and calling to say thank you for [coming, volunteering, giving, etc].

This process of getting to know people for who they are is a fundamental part of all successful fundraising. It’s not very efficient. It’s emotionally taxing. But it’s a discipline that we need to practice as a core function of how we raise money. There is certainly a time and place for digital approaches to fundraising, and AI is showing real promise. But neither one will ever substitute for building relationships.

 

Here’s what is concerning to me. I think that other charities are passing us by. Conservation isn’t rising on the priority lists. It’s staying the same at best, and it’s falling too often. Other organizations are hiring fundraising staff, or hiring staff, period. They are investing in donor research, small elegant events, CRM software and training, and personal attention. They are remembering birthdays. They are calling to leave thank you messages on voice mail and handwriting personal messages. And they are communicating often and clearly that gifts are making a difference. They are noticing donors.

Some of these other charities have done this for years – TNC, ACLU, universities, medical facilities – collectively “the big boys.” But some are local food banks, libraries, and homeless shelters that are simply “upping” their game. We need to do the same.

As a result, people who could give $1,000 to local land conservation are giving $100. People who could give $100,000 are giving $5,000. Not changing is setting us back.

 

This is not a time to be timid. Putting a strong vision on the table that will touch, move, and inspire your donorbase and then investing both time and money into building one-on-one relationships and engaging everyone in your organization in doing so – that’s what will build organizational resilience and fuel growth.

At the end of the day, the people who give now are telling you that they love supporting conservation – they love what they are doing with their money.

Start with them.

 

Cheers, and have a great week!

 

-da

 

 

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  • Alex Wilson
    Posted at 18:25h, 15 July

    To lead with such a broad statement about who is “rich” leads me to believe you 1) don’t live in the United States, and 2) don’t live in an expensive state. (I happen to know where you live.) You wrote: “Half the households in the U.S make $80,000 or more – rich by almost any world standard. We don’t need to be looking for rich people – they are all around us.” True, compared to Ethiopia ($51USD a month median income), people making $6k+ a month are rich. But, do we have the same living expenses? No. Does a donor in Seattle, San Francisco, or Boston making $80k feel rich? Are they rich? Could be, but not on that salary. So, why lead with $80k annually makes a person “rich.” The point you try to make is largely divorced from “who his ‘rich.'” You’re point is, “get to know the people who already donate to you because they are already invested in your mission…and their giving history points to capacity to give (maybe more).” To lead with the argument that $80k a year makes an individual “rich” must work in Montpelier. This line of thinking is also deceptive to those of us doing the work day in and day out; not from our home office as a consultant who interacts with Land Trusts and not donors. Donors I talk to, seniors fully retied and fully invested, are clutching their portfolios in fear of stocks devaluing–I’ve spoken with multiple current donors who have specifically stated this as a major concern and why they are “holding their money.” This includes board members. Some are rich enough to be required to take RMD, yet if I told them “David Allen says their $80k a year makes them ‘rich'” they would tell me about their medical bills, future long-term care facilities, and then hang up over ‘your’ presumptiveness. A donor currently giving us over 100k a year noted they may have to pull back “if their corpus shrinks.” You also fail to note the behaviors of the “true rich” as opposed to those making $80k annually. They can be generous, and they can also be the most “affected” by market fluctuations, changes in tax statuses, and so forth. My best friend is a tax attorney exclusively for people making 9+ figures; they give for very different reasons than someone making $80k a year. To that end, we should meet each person where they are at; enjoy their passion for conservation; and help them give at a level that brings them joy. We should make less assumptions, and ask more questions–a point you bury at the very end of your article.

  • John Rutigliano
    Posted at 11:02h, 15 July

    Dave, great point about us needing to understand that “there IS a list”. In twenty years of Fortune 50 sales and marketing roles, everyone buzzed for a while about share of wallet as a way to assess opportunity and market share. It is abundantly clear is that we need to learn our organization’s “share of heart” directly from a donor in a face to face setting. We recognize that someone is likely a “Capital C” conservation donor, supporting local, state, national and international organizations. When we learn and offer the requested touchpoints, impacts, relationships blossom. Thanks!